How to Act In Church

How to Act In Church

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Just as new trees bear new fruit, new churches make new disciples.  It is glorious to watch folks come into the Kingdom, and new churches offer a lot of opportunity for that.

While justification is a thrill, however, sanctification is hard work!  Many who come to Christ through a new work have had either no experience of church or a bad experience of church, in which case they may not know how to act.  I’m not talking about how to behave in church; I’m talking about how to be the church.  Many have never experienced what it means to live in a healthy community — to be the church, not just go to church.

In Galatians 6:1-10, Paul gives a great recipe for how to act in church.  As you begin to gather souls, I recommend some version of this teaching as a way of instilling the DNA of community into your congregation.

By Paul’s definition, what does it mean to be the church?

1.  Have one another’s back (Galatians 6:1).

This is about making sure everyone in the room recognizes that community is about cooperation, not competition.  For some who have been raised in dysfunctional or conflicted congregations, this may be a new thought.  Paul charges us to have the spirit of gentleness, to avoid the temptation of judgment in favor of the grace of bearing with one another.

2.  Keep your eyes on your own progress through life (Galatians 6:3-5).

Paul encourages us to spend less time externalizing our discomforts (blaming them on others’ behavior) and more time investing in our own connection with God.  Imagine the freedom we’d all find in church if we were all committed to working out our own salvation with fear and trembling.

3.  Show up for the sake of others, not just for yourself (Galatians 6:6-8).

The contemporary posture of church-going is pretty self-centered.  We go to “get fed,” or to satisfy our own music or worship tastes.  Community, however, is built on the principle of other-centeredness.  We show up for church not just for ourselves, but for the sake of others.  We show up in small groups not just for our own edification, but so we can build others up, because we who are committed to community get it that sometimes we need them and sometimes they need us.

4.  Do the things you are capable of doing so others don’t have to (Galatians 6:9).

Those who are called to lead may need to be challenged to step up and take authority, so others who are less ready are not placed in those positions before their time.

5.  Recognize that you don’t know everything there is to know about another person’s story (Galatians 6:3-4).

Having acknowledged #4 above, we also must recognize that not every person is called to serve in every season.  There are also seasons of sabbath — for healing, for restoration. In those cases, what folks most need is someone who will understand and not make them feel guilty for not meeting all the other needs when they can hardly meet their own.

6.  Hang in there with one another (Galatians 6:9).

One of our greatest strengths in my church community is the ability we seem to have to hang onto people.  Especially in a community where folks don’t yet know “how to act in church,” patience may be the best gift we can give while sanctification does its work, recognizing that holiness is a process, not an event.

7.  Honor differences by allowing for them (Galatians 6:6).

It is okay if we each do things differently.  You won’t approach life or Christ the way I do, and I need to be okay with that.  In fact, Paul tells us (1 Corinthians 12:12-27) that this is how the community of the King is designed to work.

8.  Tend to each other’s practical needs (Galatians 6:10).

Maybe the best way for non-believers and new believers to experience the value of community is when we meet them at the point of their deepest needs.  I’m not talking about the kind of co-dependence that tries too hard to be everyone’s everything.  But through a healthy small group system, the community as a whole (not the pastor) can respond to needs, including the meals sent after surgery or a funeral, or by being there to pray or just be present when someone is dealing with depression or divorce.  In the community of Christ, we don’t consider private lives private so much as personal, so that we become accustomed to responding in personal ways to personal needs.

9.  Pray for each other (Galatians 6:2).

This is key. When prayer is at the center of community, then connections are stronger (“a cord of three strands is not easily broken”).  This is what it means, at its root, to bear one another’s burdens.  Be challenged to teach your folks to go deeper than adding names to a prayer list.  Teach them to labor for one another in prayer, to bear one another’s burdens to the One who loved them first and loves them most.

This is how the community of Christ ought to act in church.  It isn’t simply about going to church, or getting people to come to church.  That is a habit we probably all ought to break. Instead, let’s teach our people to be the church, so that in our life together we are bearing Christ to the world.


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